Women: When you allow a guy to pursue you but you know you are not yet ready to be in a relationship…that’s giving false hope. Never string a guy along because you’re unsure of your feelings or you’re fearful of being in a relationship. Deal with your fears first (take it to God!). It’s not fair for both of you. Unwanted emotions will come into play if you’re not careful.

Men: When you keep the girl guessing (most women have that wired in their system!) because you’re extra sweet to her or you tell her you like her…that’s opening a piece of the lady’s heart. And once it’s opened, it triggers the most vulnerable part of the woman. Don’t let her fall if you’re just going to leave her right there in the pavement. A woman’s heart always comes with the “extra caution” sign.